Saturday, September 17, 2005

Eye Accessing Cues, Breaking Ey Contact and Rapport...

Thank you Danel. I brought this ~exact~ point up last year and no
one wished to pursue the usefulness of strategic or tacitally
breaking eye contact as a way to build rapport, rather than the
Assumption that rapport is always direct eye contact and
full or mostly full body facing the subject person.
I would like to explore using this more and
see when shifting body, looking away, or changing a conversation
topic can be used as a technique to deepen trance or
suggestability.

Danel and Will,

First off Will the assumption that rapport is always direct eye contact and
full or mostly full body facing the subject person as far as I can remember
was not brought up in this manner. If so I missed it or the thought was to
funny to even comment on as rapport in my book and the way I use it has
nothing to do with facing someone or always having direct eye contact.

Rapport is about getting, keeping and deepening trust. Rapport can be
obtained from behind and even without the person being in direct eye sight.

Rapport is built or deepened by pacing and leading. Strategic breaking of
eye contact can be a way to deepen rapport if it causes the person you are
in rapport with to follow. Any action that causes someone to follow deepens
rapport. That is called the leading part of pace and lead.

Plus there are also great advantages in getting rapport, breaking rapport
(trying to lead and they don't follow) and getting rapport (pacing) again.

Will you are wanting to discuss fractionation where Danel wants to discuss
how eye accessing cues don't work.

It may be fun to watch a discussion with two different outcomes thinking
they are discussing the same outcome.

It will be fun to see where this conversation goes.


To Your Best,
Doc Houston
http://www.achieve-your-potential.com

What We can LEARN From Our Minds...

Love to ALL,

As PEAT (Primordial Energy Activation and Transcendence) progresses things get better. Like Zivorad, I also am getting people to their primes in a very short time.

Here is a testimonial from a client we neutralized their primes on the phone in about 30-45 minutes. (The process does seem to be getting quicker and quicker.)

I'm sending this because I had not been aware of this perception of speaking directly to the sub/unconscious and I thought it an interesting distinction.

From another group..........


Dear Group;
I recently had an experience which if I can find words to describe it well
enough might be fun for some of you energy techies.

I amazedly watched and participated in a conversation of self realization
with Doc Houston over the phone. He used the PEAT process to neutralize
and integrate my prime polarities. It was and is still a fascinating process.

To me it seemed he was able to bypass me as a conscious entity and
directly/separately speak with my subconscious. Then he had my subconscious
give me pictures sensed in my body, add emotions from subconscious, and add
auditory meaning.

He had me hold only three different energy points at different times while
the seemingly unrelated series of pictures from my life formed a chain until
everything merged under a set of polarities I had not been aware I was
using, but had always been my operating dynamic.

Once begun my subconscious so enjoyed the process it could not be done fast
enough! In about a half hour I had a new outlook on life. I am learning
still to use this non-compulsive way of observing and enjoying life. So far
I am having fun as much stronger emotions are suddenly optionally available.
That is, as situations I used to react to in a pattern are coming up again,
I get a surge of "how do I want to play this game emotion". It is usually
like an adrenal flood of clarity, but calm and in command. Does that make
any sense?

You see, guys and gals why I have been waiting to say anything as I am not
yet up to being able to describe what is happening. I am much more the
observer and in control, detached, unaffected and yet in this world to deal
with whatever comes my way. My streams of thought seem clearer and longer
to me.

does anyone understand me or have a comment? Remember, I first learned from
a Silva/Huna perspective so while I know all the terms you use like
kinesthetic, gustatory and I love energy medicine this group is kind of like
me and Spanish. I can read and comprehend a lot but not respond in kind as
well. So I am not certain if I have made myself clear as yet.
Sincerely,
Xxxxxx


To Your Best,
Doc Houston
http://www.achieve-your-potential.com